Where Warren Will Be

For Warren to let you know when he’ll be in your area, click here. Questions? Email warren@warrenfarrell.com

PRESENTLY AVAILABLE…

RECENT PAST

  • September 25-26, 2023 Keynote Speaker for the Tennessee Inaugural Fatherhood Conference. 

  • April 17-21, 2023 (Virtual), 9amPST/12pmEST, The Co-Parenting Success Summit. How to Co-Parent successfully before, during and after divorce. Register here. 

Role Mate to Soul Mate begins with a series of exercises that teach you the art of appreciating your partner. You then practice both the art and discipline of hearing your partner’s criticisms without becoming defensive. For example, so you don’t have to fear “walking on eggshells” before sharing a concern, your partner first learns how to prepare her or himself to emotionally associate your criticism with an opportunity to be more deeply loved.

Soul Mate is designed as the next evolutionary shift beyond active listening. Active listening allows the criticizer to feel heard, but fails to teach the person hearing the criticism how to emotionally associate the criticism with an opportunity to be more deeply loved. The problem? Unless the listener feels safe, the person sharing their concern cannot feel safe.

During the workshop, you will learn a series of skills that will allow you to connect more deeply with your partner, with yourself, and with your own innate ability to consciously create a more loving and communicative environment in your lives. We will do this by sharing a number of practices and experiences:

  • Dancing before each session, and learning how to use dancing to revitalize.

  • Together we will hold a loving and energizing closing ceremony.

  • You will learn how to create and sustain a “conflict free zone” for 166 hours of the week, and to prepare for the other two hours during which you and your partner will create a safe environment to hear each other’s most important concerns or criticisms.

  • You will learn to create time each week to appreciate your partner, and learn the art of taking those appreciations to seven levels of specificity.

  • You will learn “Eight Wisdoms” as a foundation for deepening your love.

To support your connection after the workshop, you are also invited to multiple free, on-going, group follow-up calls to resolve stumbling blocks. If you wish to review the insights and exercises at any time, you will also have the option of purchasing a Zoom version of the course.

This workshop is for couples of all genders and sexual orientations. A couple could be any two people with a history who desire a better future (i.e. parents or partners, married or divorced; newlyweds; parent-child; siblings; etc.). Developed over the past 30 years, the workshop is also used by many health professionals in their work with clients and patients.

Video of Couples’ Retreat in action (3 min, home made by Liz). Video of Dr. Farrell interviewed on Couples’ Communication Retreats.

More distant past… (selected):

Warren with leaders of the Norwegian Parliament in November 2019 speaking on The Boy Crisis and the importance of equal shared parenting.
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